Our Debt Confession

We have debt. There, I said it. We are working on paying everything off so we can live the way we want. We spent years working on becoming “normal” only to realize that we didn’t want to be normal. We are breaking down our debt into small payoff goals. I touched on this in our January goals post. I started this website to completely share our journey into our new life. Our long-term plan is to be debt free, travel with our kids, and buy a house someplace warm that feels like home. This all began with a conversation while on vacation. My husband and I talked about what we would do if we could do anything. What would our lives look like if we were living our dream life? Our dreams included lots of travel, beach days, sunshine, and time spent with our kids and each other. We were not surprised by this. We do travel quite a bit with our girls but not as much as we would like. We went a step further and constructed our dream life. We would sell the majority of our stuff and live out of backpacks for a year while traveling the world with our kids. Then we would travel the United States for one to two years while I work as a travel nurse and Michael works at temporary jobs or stays with our kids. We spend that time getting to know our country and decide where we want to live. We buy a house near the beach someplace that feels right. Wow! That sounds amazing, right?

Do you know what happened after this dream planning? My crazy husband says “Let’s do that.” while nodding his head. Like it was completely doable. Like we just discussed having tacos for dinner. Did I mention that my husband is abnormal? I literally rolled my eyes at the man. He looks at me incredulously and asks “What? If that’s the dream, let’s do it.” I respond to this like any sane human being with “We can’t.” His response…”Why not?” Please keep in mind this is an intelligent, grown man. My response…”Because.” That is where the conversation dies. We left it right there for ages and we could have left it right there forever. That is the place most dreams are abandoned. I mean, we are adults. We can’t just go live our dreams.

For some reason, we revisited this conversation. I like to think it was because we both really want the same things in life. This time we really discussed the reasons that come after that because. We are currently working on the first big hurdle, our huge mound of debt. We want to be really upfront and honest about what we are facing so these are the exact numbers. I hate when I read websites that are about debt payoff, preparing for long-term travel, or budgeting and they do not include the actual numbers. They’ll say things like “Let’s just say this is $100. That’s a nice round number to work with. I also hate when people who only discuss debt payoff after it is done. I love to read about how somebody paid off $50,000 in 14 months or whatever but I wish they were writing the whole way so I can read their entire journey. I want to share all of the details from start to finish with you. So here we go:

We actually sat down together and wrote out every debt. We didn’t know exactly how much we owed. The number makes me want to vomit.

Our Debt

  • Loan – $1,202.67
  • Credit Cards – $17,973.94
  • Student Loans – $49,278.68
  • House – $115,766.18

Grand Total – $184,121.47

We are starting with paying off our credit cards. We have picked out the order we plan to pay them off in. We will continue to make the payments on everything as normal while working on the first credit card we are attempting to pay off. The personal loan will be the next thing on the list if we don’t pay it off while paying on the credit cards since it is so close to being done anyway. The student loans will be next. We are using the snowball method except there are a couple of credit cards that are out-of-order from least to most because we want to pay them off before the interest-free period ends. We have a long road ahead of us but we can do it!

8 Replies to “Our Debt Confession”

  1. Wow! You are so right. It’s hard to put the numbers out there for everyone!
    I am so glad I found you! What a great journey you are on. I can’t wait to watch it all unfold for you!

  2. Wow, I can’t tell you how much I relate to this post. Yay you for braving it and actually being honest about the mountain on your shoulders. I have a lot of debt too in fact, my fiance and I both do. We have over $50,000 to pay off. Even though we had this, we looked into different housing opportunities to help us save more money and put more towards our debt. I am not sure if you would ever sell your house… but I know tiny houses are a lot more affordable if you can stand a small space. I’ll have to follow your journey to see how it goes for you. We live in a van and travel around while working to pay off debt without paying rent. Kuddos to you for still keeping positive thoughts even though you have this debt, but you still have dreams. I hope you can pay off your debt soon πŸ™‚


    1. We plan to sell our home before we leave to travel. It is a modest place in a good school district so we don’t have to worry about the girls education while we work long and hard to pay everything off. A positive mindset goes a long way. Negative thoughts don’t help anything. Keep up your hard work! I’m happy to have you along for the journey!

  3. This sounds like a great plan & a great start! 😊 You and your family are very brave! I was always taught to start off paying off credit card debt first. You are well on your way to your journey of paying off your debt. I think your sequence of paying off debt is smart!
    Wishing you the best,
    Christina/ The Blog for Teachers, Readers, & Life!

  4. Nice. Very honest. It is really hard to put numbers when you are trying to pay out debts. Nonetheless, the honesty that comes with it makes the burden lighter.

    Thanks for sharing,

    Michelle / DSM Tool

  5. What an incredible plan you’ve got here – so inspiring! The thought of travelling must be incredible. Must help motivate you and keep you going! I’d love to go travelling with my boyfriend but I wouldn’t know where to start or to go! I think I would be pretty scared too, haha. I can’t wait to see how your journey goes πŸ™‚


    1. Honestly, I’m terrified but it’s something I have wanted to do since I was 14. What is that saying? A comfort zone is a beautiful place, but nothing ever grows there. We would love to have you along for the journey!

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