The Minimalism Game – Week 1 Update

We are playing the minimalism game this month. We thought it would be a fun way for the family to begin to declutter our home. We have actually been really enjoying it. It’s nice to have a goal in place to motivate us. The kids have liked it more than I thought they would. We decided to document each day with a photo and I would like to share them with you.

Day 1 – A baby bathtub that Octavia is too big for

Day 2 – Two pairs of Octavia’s shoes that were too small

Day 3 – A skirt that was getting a little short, shorts that were getting too tight, and a book that Isabella didn’t want

Day 4 – A shirt and two swimsuits that Octavia had outgrown, a toy harmonica from a birthday party treat bag

Day 5 – Two of Octavia’s sleepers, two of her shirts, and a pair of Isabella’s pants that she didn’t like

Day 6 – Octavia’s Clothing: a pair of too short leggings, a too small sweater and shirt, a shirt that I don’t like, 2 Halloween shirts

Day 7 – Seven of Isabella’s books that she no longer wanted

That’s the first week of our decluttering. I will share our week two shortly. Happy Decluttering!

 

Our Debt Confession

We have debt. There, I said it. We are working on paying everything off so we can live the way we want. We spent years working on becoming “normal” only to realize that we didn’t want to be normal. We are breaking down our debt into small payoff goals. I touched on this in our January goals post. I started this website to completely share our journey into our new life. Our long-term plan is to be debt free, travel with our kids, and buy a house someplace warm that feels like home. This all began with a conversation while on vacation. My husband and I talked about what we would do if we could do anything. What would our lives look like if we were living our dream life? Our dreams included lots of travel, beach days, sunshine, and time spent with our kids and each other. We were not surprised by this. We do travel quite a bit with our girls but not as much as we would like. We went a step further and constructed our dream life. We would sell the majority of our stuff and live out of backpacks for a year while traveling the world with our kids. Then we would travel the United States for one to two years while I work as a travel nurse and Michael works at temporary jobs or stays with our kids. We spend that time getting to know our country and decide where we want to live. We buy a house near the beach someplace that feels right. Wow! That sounds amazing, right?

Do you know what happened after this dream planning? My crazy husband says “Let’s do that.” while nodding his head. Like it was completely doable. Like we just discussed having tacos for dinner. Did I mention that my husband is abnormal? I literally rolled my eyes at the man. He looks at me incredulously and asks “What? If that’s the dream, let’s do it.” I respond to this like any sane human being with “We can’t.” His response…”Why not?” Please keep in mind this is an intelligent, grown man. My response…”Because.” That is where the conversation dies. We left it right there for ages and we could have left it right there forever. That is the place most dreams are abandoned. I mean, we are adults. We can’t just go live our dreams.

For some reason, we revisited this conversation. I like to think it was because we both really want the same things in life. This time we really discussed the reasons that come after that because. We are currently working on the first big hurdle, our huge mound of debt. We want to be really upfront and honest about what we are facing so these are the exact numbers. I hate when I read websites that are about debt payoff, preparing for long-term travel, or budgeting and they do not include the actual numbers. They’ll say things like “Let’s just say this is $100. That’s a nice round number to work with. I also hate when people who only discuss debt payoff after it is done. I love to read about how somebody paid off $50,000 in 14 months or whatever but I wish they were writing the whole way so I can read their entire journey. I want to share all of the details from start to finish with you. So here we go:

We actually sat down together and wrote out every debt. We didn’t know exactly how much we owed. The number makes me want to vomit.

Our Debt

  • Loan – $1,202.67
  • Credit Cards – $17,973.94
  • Student Loans – $49,278.68
  • House – $115,766.18

Grand Total – $184,121.47

We are starting with paying off our credit cards. We have picked out the order we plan to pay them off in. We will continue to make the payments on everything as normal while working on the first credit card we are attempting to pay off. The personal loan will be the next thing on the list if we don’t pay it off while paying on the credit cards since it is so close to being done anyway. The student loans will be next. We are using the snowball method except there are a couple of credit cards that are out-of-order from least to most because we want to pay them off before the interest-free period ends. We have a long road ahead of us but we can do it!

January 2018 – Goals

January Goals:

  • Pay off my Capital One card
  • Do not go out for dinner more than 3 times
  • Pack our lunches for work
  • Continue to Simplify/Declutter/Minimize Our Home & Possessions

Our January Plan

Our first goal for January is to pay off one of our credit cards. Currently, we owe $745.01 on it. We are going to give it all we got to pay it off by the end of the month. My husband is going to be picking up some extra hours. We are going to be cutting as many things as possible to stretch our budget. This is a large but achievable amount for us. We are so excited at the thought of getting rid of this debt!

I am finishing up our budget binder today that we will be using as a tool going forward. I will put up a post about this soon once I have it finished. I’m really excited about this! We are also using the app “Every Dollar” and I write down all of our due dates in my day planner as well. This helps us to stay on budget and to make sure that our bills are paid on time. We are attempting to use up the things that we already own so that we will spend less. We are going to go through everything in our pantry, fridge, and freezer to use up what we already have. This will help us to lower our food costs even more for this month.

We have one dinner out planned for our oldest daughter’s birthday. She is still deciding on where she wants to go. Last I heard she was thinking sushi. We are secretly hoping not to have to use the other two nights but we wanted to make sure we had some wiggle room in case something crazy happens such as illness or a super late work night.

We are going to plan ahead each week when making the grocery list to include easy to grab breakfast items and items to pack for lunch. We have been tracking our finances and we both spend too much on buying food and beverages on work days. We have discovered that we are the death by $10 type. We take the time to really consider larger purchases but we never second guess those small purchases like a donut and coffee for breakfast. Packing our lunches and planning ahead for breakfast will help with two goals. We will be saving money and potentially making better choices about what we are eating.

The last bit of our plan is to continue our trip toward minimalism and simplifying our home and lives. We will be doing the 30-day minimalism challenge. I read about this on The Minimalists and have been wanting to try it. I don’t have anybody doing it with me. I just plan to try to make it through the 30 days because I think it will be good for our family and our home, especially after Christmas. The idea is that you get rid of one item on day 1, two items on day 2, three items on day 3, and so on until you hit day 30 on which you would get rid of 30 items. I have been considering this challenge for quite a while. As many of you know I have been making it a point over the last year to push myself to do things that I want to do but avoid because they are hard or not part of the social norm. This is one of those things that I know is going to be really difficult by the end. Just finding the time each day to complete the challenge will be difficult. I intend to take a photo each day and keep a running list of what I got rid of to share with all of you once a week. Wish me luck!

Here’s a link to the minimalism game: https://www.theminimalists.com/game/ 

Accomplishing Long Term Goals

As anyone who has ever completed a long-term goal can tell you, it doesn’t happen overnight or without loads of effort. I have achieved a few big long-term goals during my life. It is important to break them down into smaller pieces. This will keep you from becoming completely overwhelmed and helps you to achieve your goals by giving you a roadmap to success. Accomplishing small goals keeps you going on the path to achieving your long-term goals. You can set lofty short-term goals and really push with all you have to accomplish them.

I have many different types of long-term goals and want to make sure that I am dedicating enough time and effort to each of them. They all eventually get me to my ultimate long-term goal. I am going to begin breaking them down into small monthly goals. I will post a list of my monthly goals and how I plan to accomplish them. I will do a summary at the end of the month to discuss how the month went including the good and the bad. I think this will help to hold me accountable for working toward where I want to be in life. It would be awesome if it encourages anyone to work on their goals as well.

In order for all of this to make sense, you need to know what it is I’m working toward. My ultimate long-term goal is a little crazy. It goes like this: A year of traveling around the world with my family followed by a year or two working as a travel nurse so we can decide where we want to live. When we know where our “home” is, we will buy a home there and settle down until we get itchy feet again. There are a lot of things that need to happen before we are ready for any of that. This leads us to that list of long-term goals I was talking about.

My/Our Long Term Goals

  • Be Debt Free
  • In Good Shape and Healthy
  • Live Simply and More Minimally 
  • Finish Our Home Projects
  • Further my Career/Improve my Career Potential
  • Build This into a Successful Blog/Website
  • Buy a New Van 

We are working toward becoming debt free now. We want to pay off all of our credit cards, student loans, and a personal loan. I will likely do a post about the break down of this or a running page that I update as needed to involve all of you in the process. I will include the dollar amount in the monthly goal breakdown so you will know exactly what it is we are trying to accomplish at that time. My husband and I are both Dave Ramsey fans. We intend to do a slightly different version of the debt snowball. We are planning to pay off our credit cards and personal loan first, followed by student loans, and then we will work on saving/paying extra on our mortgage.

I am currently out of shape. I want to return to my extremely active lifestyle. My daily life is better when I am in better shape. I don’t get tired as easily. I feel better physically and mentally. It is easier to travel the way that I like to when I am in good shape. I love to hike and be outdoors. It is also easier to keep up with my kids. I plan to start eating better and exercising regularly. We will also be cooking at home more and avoiding eating out. This will also help us financially.

We want to lower the stress level in our home by living more simply. I have been researching minimalism for a couple of years. It is something that my husband and I have discussed for a while. We have been slowly transitioning and we have decided to start making bigger pushes this year toward the lifestyle that we desire.

There are a few projects at our house that we would like to get finished. There are two reasons we would like to get these done. The first reason is that our house will be worth more when we eventually sell it and it will likely sell faster. The second reason is that we will enjoy living here more until we move. We are planning to do these projects anyway before we move so it makes sense to do it sooner and actually enjoy it for a couple of years.

My career as a nurse is always going to be part of my life. I love what I do and I want to continue to grow. I plan on taking some classes towards my next degree, getting my med/surg certification, and attending more meetings. I think these meetings will give me some new perspective on how other units do things.

I plan to continue working on this website. I would like to post at least once a week going forward. I also want to spend the time getting all of our past travel posts edited and live. This website is fairly new. I started it at the beginning of October 2017 after blogging for fun for a number of years. I went live in November 2017. I feel like there is so much that I don’t know yet and many things that I don’t fully understand yet. I want to keep working to improve my writing and photography skills as well.

We really want a van. We will eventually need one to achieve one of our ultimate goals. Traveling the United States with our girls will require a larger vehicle. Currently, I drive a small car that is paid off. The five of us just fit and it is great on gas. There is just enough room in the hatchback for our luggage when we take long road trips or the large stroller but not both. Our biggest issue with our car is that we can’t take anybody else with us. Our girls can’t bring friends with them on outings if the whole family is going. We can’t take the dog with us because there isn’t an extra seat for him. He is very large and requires some serious space. A minivan would make our daily lives much easier.

Now you have an overview of all our long-term goals! I will be posting our January goal list soon!

 

20 Non-Candy Stocking Stuffer Ideas

  1. Socks – Everybody loves nice socks. Cute socks for little kids and teens are a great option. They are inexpensive and will get used. You could get their favorite character or warm, fuzzy ones to help them stay warm. Slipper socks are also a fun option.
  2. Make-up and Nail Polish – These are great options for the older girls on your list. Little girls also like getting fake make-up so they can emulate their older siblings and moms.
  3. Gloves – It’s that time of the year. If you live some place warm, skip this one and don’t brag. I’m already jealous.
  4.  Bubble Bath – Kids love bubble bath! Bonus points if it’s their favorite character or smell.
  5. Lotion – Nice smelling hand or body lotion is a favorite of tween/teen girls.
  6. Snacks – Fruit snacks, fruit, dried fruit, or cookies are good options. Anything that your child considers a treat that you can package. You could make homemade cookies and package them.
  7. Cute Stationary Supplies – My oldest daughter loves this kind of stuff. Think post-its, pens, and notepads with fun designs.
  8. Books – Do you have a bookworm on your list? Books are definitely the answer. Chapter books are the perfect size to slide into a stocking. Board books are a great option for babies and toddlers.
  9. Earbuds – People are always in need of a new pair of earbuds. They get lost or broken so easily.
  10. Playdough – Kids love this stuff! It’s cheap and hours of fun. There are small fun-size options that are sold in large packages if you want to give a multiple colors to each kid.
  11. Gift Cards – These are a great option for older kids. They can pick out what they want. You can do small denominations for craft stores, target, book stores, or restaurants. They get to have the extra fun of the trip to spend their money.
  12. Small Toys – Figurines, stuffed animals, and baby/toddler toys are the perfect size to stuff in a stocking.
  13. Stickers – Kids love stickers!
  14. Crayons and/or a small coloring book – Crayons are nice if you have coloring books already under the tree. I found a small coloring kit last year that our daughter enjoyed a couple of days later when she was starting to get bored on winter break.
  15. Craft Items – Paint, markers, stamps, small craft kits, etc.
  16. Chopsticks – These are a favorite around here. You could also go with cute silverware for small kids and babies.
  17. Jewelry – Inexpensive fashion jewelry is a fun gift idea for kids and teens. I ordered a bunch of these online for next to nothing and picked up the rest on clearance or at discount stores. They love to have new earrings and necklaces to wear without any worries of them losing something expensive.
  18. Hair accessories and Styling Products – This is a great idea for teenagers. Trail sizes so they can try something new. Accessories are fun for young girls too. Isabella, 7 years old, loves headbands and hair bows.
  19.  Cute Toothbrushes –  I gave my two older daughters cute electric toothbrushes one year. It was a huge hit.
  20. Money – Everybody likes cash. Everybody.